Success And Mistresses

I'm finally blogging something worth writing since I spent $8 on a cup of overrated caffeine just so I could sit down and waste time waiting for work to start. I wrote and gave myself some relief in the midst of the madness now. Now I have pages and pages of scenic and stargazing song and dance imagery.
However, I did manage to write something that was on my mind for awhile but of course unrefined but here goes anyway.

I’ve come from a family that emphasizes in the need for a woman to be a supportive significant other especially when it comes to work and career. While I have no expostulations towards this there is a worrying pattern that I’ve come to expect in the future because after all whatever 20years has taught me, is to not expect much from others but yourself.

My dad came out of poverty around his late thirties and pioneered our family business that my second brother will be inheriting. My oldest brother has his own e-learning business. (You can pretty much tell that I would really want something of my own when I graduate too and the challenge and expectations of that is beyond the valleys of demanding)
My point in saying this? I really still want to live the comfortable life and be able to have some material wealth my brothers hold.

As we all know bout the ‘entertainment’ in business hence the reason for the existence for sleazy bars also known as “lap sap” bars (LSB). On an average visit to an LSB you would see maybe 4 out of 10 men wear their wedding rings – couple rings whatever, it’s your symbolization of commitment – and that also does not take into account of rings in pockets.

My dad brings his Korean clients to have a drink or two and as entertainment sake there is always a need for women to be butterfly-ing around. Not only for visual display but we all know the more girls mean more cost, which means that individual is pretty much loaded and generous. Finally you have power.

Now you may ask why these business men can’t have ‘cleaner’ activities?
Few things bring men together, music, beer, women, business and sports. So duh, if you were to impress someone isn’t the basic thing is to make sure he has a good time? And of course the typical thing is to follow the stereotype. This leads to bars, KTV pubs or LSBs.

Your second question is, the individual could be going to these places but not be enjoying it himself right?
I would; as a man or woman rather do business with a man who acts like a dick because he knows how to enjoy things and is taking charge. Compared to the pussy wankers glued to their phones and constantly reporting to wives. Who wants to do business with a man who does not show he is domineering and powerful? I mean he is answerable to his wife during a business meeting? And there is a fine line between respect and this.
In addition, you will have influence encircling the good boy to have a good time. He is force fed with alcohol and might end up doing something stupid. He would disappear for a few hours and his woman would become non-existent. Feel regretful, ignominious, choked with guilt but covers it all up with anger or aggression. They bicker more, trust is lost and it becomes all too stressful that he ends up being The ID, going back to the basis of the huge need for sex. That ends up to continuous cheating.

So are we all doomed?
Hell yeah. No more rich man of your dreams who still loves you eternally. Or you could have a man who loves you eternally but isn’t successful (word of caution, still might cheat). If course there are exceptions but if you’ve such painful luck with men as I do? You’ll be working your ass off like me.